A cat goes still and tense while you pet it. What does that usually mean?

It is uncomfortable, so stop.

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  1. It loves it and wants more
  2. It is uncomfortable, so stop ✔
  3. It is about to fall asleep

Why: Not every unhappy cat lashes out. International Cat Care says many cats show discomfort by freezing or going tense, so a quiet, still cat may only be putting up with you.

Huh, didn't know that: International Cat Care says if a cat does not approach or moves away, that is a clear no.

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What do you call a cat that stands perfectly still? A paws-ed statue.
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Answer: It is uncomfortable, so stop. Not every unhappy cat lashes out. International Cat Care says many cats show discomfort by freezing or going tense, so a quiet, still cat may only be putting up with you.

  1. Cat Friendly Interaction (International Cat Care) icatcare.org/articles/cat-friendly-interaction
    Signs a cat may be experiencing discomfort include moving away, freezing, appearing tense
    Checked 2026-10-11.

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