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What is the polite thing to say in Japanese when you finish a meal?

Gochisoosama deshita. (ごちそうさまでした。)

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  1. Gochisoosama deshita. (ごちそうさまでした。) ✔
  2. Itadakimasu. (いただきます。)
  3. Okaerinasai. (おかえりなさい。)

Why: Gochisoosama deshita thanks the cook and host after the meal. Itadakimasu is for before eating, and okaerinasai welcomes someone home.

Huh, didn't know that: Say it to the chef or host as you leave the table or restaurant.

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Answer: Gochisoosama deshita. (ごちそうさまでした。). Gochisoosama deshita thanks the cook and host after the meal. Itadakimasu is for before eating, and okaerinasai welcomes someone home.

  1. NHK WORLD-JAPAN Easy Japanese, Lesson 24 www3.nhk.or.jp/nhkworld/lesson/en/lessons/24.html
    Once the meal is over, it’s customary to say "Gochisoosama deshita."
    Checked 2026-10-10.

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